. >> reporter: patrickreland, the boy who tried to escape out the window and suffers traumatic brain injury, said he just wants to forget their names and move on. but other families told us they want to offer sue klebold their prayers and their grace. rachel scott was the first to die at columbine. her family has a foundation teaching forgiveness, because they say it's the way god flows through us to help others. anne marie hochhalter, a bullet paralyzed her from the waist down. that anger does nothing. down. >> reporter: tom mauser, who wears his son's shoes as he makes his way through life on a mission. for daniel, he fights to keep guns out of the hands of kids and criminals. he told us he actually met with sue klebold, and the meeting helped turn his anger into understanding. and she says tonight, she wants the families to know she's ready to offer anything else that will help. >> i don't want to impose myself to do that, because it has to be about them and what -- and their healing and what they need. >> reporter: so many people, as someone said, sentenced to a life of grief, wi