. >> reporter: it began the morning after christmas 1996, john and patty ramsey woken up to find a ransomhorrifying discovery in their own basement. >> the worst moment of that morning was not finding her, but realizing that she was gone and taken. when i found her it was a rush of relief and within moments i realized that she was probably dead. but she was back in my arms. >> reporter: within hours, the ramseys especially john felt they were being treated like suspects. what is that like, living under that cloud of suspicion? >> at the time we were so crushed at by the loss of a child it didn't matter. >> reporter: footprints, broken window, dna evidence, all tantalizing clues that fuelled the media frenzy unlike any in modern journalism. >> did you kill jonbenet? >> reporter: it will take 12 years for the boulder district attorney using new dna procedures to clear the entire ramsey family and issue an apology. but not before his wife lost her battle with cancer. yet, all of these years later, he doesn't complain, he only gets outraged at the thought of the rush to judgment let the real