>>> tonight paul brunson, the match making magician reveals his closely regarded secrets for finding true love. >> i know the benefit of having that love in my life. >> his challenge -- >> the biggest challenge is mindset. >> a young widow. >> that was the worst time of my life. >> she's desperate to love again. >> i miss passion. i miss romantic love. i miss holding someone's hand. >> now watch paul teach her how to get back in the game. >> over the next 20 days i'm sending you on 20 first dates. >> i'm a mom and bei how to flirt for the first time. >> but sometimes finding lasting romance -- >> your eye contact is piercing. >> -- requires some tough love. >> we have to talk. >> embark on the ultimate journey. >> i'm excited about it. >> with a world renowned expert as your guide. >> many of us fall in love. the person that we think still to come. >> i feel like i have been reminded there are a lot of things in life to be reminded about. >> tonight paul brunson. >> you can only find yourself love. my job is to give you the tools to do it. >> help. i need love. ♪ >> my name is courtn