that's how she found paul lopez. been dating for a few months and paul had even joined her weekly softball game. lopez was the last person marabel talked to on the phone. now police wanted to talk to him. >> you know, you're not under arrest, anything like that. >> i wouldn't think so. >> ramirez sat across from paul and asked about his relationship with marabel. >> it's been nothing exclusive, it's just been dating. >> you date other people, too? >> me, yeah. >> you don't know if she dates other people or not? >> i don't ask, don't tell. >> and he asked lopez where he was on the night marabel disappeared. >> did you come into orange at all on thursday? >> no. >> police also had to consider this. marabel had told lucy that things weren't working out with paul lopez. >> she wasn't a match with paul, so she was online talking to people. >> marabel was back on plenty of fish and had met a new man. he was a photographer who had worked a lot with the military. it was a connection for both of them. >> how would you describ