. >> as far as who's done it right, i always go back to paul newman.ou know he really was, i think -- i loved his movies so much, and he was a guy that gave so many towering performances and so many fantastic films and, yet gave more than he got. >> rose: this is not about being a movie star. this is about a life. >> and that's what we should try to emulate. i think it was important because he was very good at his job and loved his job but, you know i think about, like, you know, i came here, i was picked up and driven here, and i'm wearing this suit that i didn't pay for. i had somebody put makeup on my face which made me look good on television. i'm here to talk about a movie i was in. it's important to remember 99% of the world doesn't care. so, you know we need to remember that and put that in its place, and then when you look at your life and look at what it is that we should do, it's all that other stuff. >> rose: exactly. and use this part. >> rose: children help you realize that, too, don't they? >> oh, yeah. absolutely. i mean, you know i work