it was paul newman, the story i tell in the book, who told me "if you have a pulse, you have a purposethe whole context of the story to understand what you say it, but that stayed with me. and then when i held my husband, who had passed on just a few moments before, and i found him gone, but gone to glory, this look, and i said, oh, my god, he saw jesus, and jesus took his breath away. i was sobbing, but it wasn't tears of anguish, i was rejoicing with him, and that is what i tried to explain to regis before he died. he came to lunch at my house, he goes, where do we go, what happens to us? and we had yet another talk like we have had, you know, this 35 year friendship. >> martha: i'm grateful for your time tonight. the book is called "it's never too late." thank you very much, kathie lee. >> bless you. happy holidays. >> martha: bless you, too. that is "the story" for tonight. we will see tomorrow night. ♪ >> tucker: good evening, welcome to "tucker carlson tonight." christmas is almost here, the best week on the american calendar, the happiest time that we have. this year, of all yea