, paula, be quiet. >> well, you know, my years at the white house were a bit different. every dessert hand presentation, as you know, and dessert were designed to actually harder visiting country and visiting head of states so the design was very particular and was only used once, never twice. and i've served the country of india many, many times. the flavor used in dessert will be flavored that i will recognize in india, that they can affiliate with and recognize. it's very important for them when they come to america or to any other country that they can see what they eat, recognize the food. >> larry: i think the same on the whole menu, they probably choose the pumpkin pie because of thanksgiving is coming up in two days. wolfgang, could this be a challenge for you? the whole rest of the menu is indian. >> that's what i'm saying. >> larry: we're off to a good start here. >> the dessert reflects very much. >> larry: i get it, roland. >> i'm a little bit disappointed not to see something more grandiose, something more elaborate for a dinner of that status. >> larry: i'v

hold it, paula. >> yes. >> larry: walter is the former white house chef. could an american chef come up with an indian dinner? >> oh, sure. american cuisine is a lot like the american culture. it's got influences from all over the world, none of them dominating but having an influence. obviously, there's a lot of familiar ingredients and i'm sure paula recognizes collard greens listed further down, pecans are all american, too. >> yes, i was impressed. >> larry: do you like -- paula, you're talking over me. >> yeah, paula, be quiet. >> well, you know, my years at the white house were a bit different. every dessert was a grand prelgs, as you know. every dessert was designed to actually honor the visiting country and the visiting head of states. so the design was very particular and was only used once, never twice. and i've served the country of india many, many times. the flavor used in dessert will be flavored that i will recognize in india, that they can affiliate with and recognize. it's very important for them when they come to america or to any other c

go back to paula bloom. paula, is this just some guy talking tough, mouthing off, trying to be your wannabe thug? >> i'm not sure specifically who he is but i heard you say it was found the charges were unfounded as far as the threats? they were unfounded threats? >> the threats he was making the cops were saying the threats were empty threats. i don't think it matters in the sense people were intimidated. >> absolutely. a lot of times when we don't feel good about ourselves or feel powerless we get ourselves involved in all kinds of things to kind of exert, hey, i can do this. i'm tough. and so a lot of times if he had absolutely nothing to do with this it was a way to feel involved in something or part of something. >> let's bring back kate monahan. do we know anything more about the fight at all, kate, what jas might have been doing there? did he try and break up the fight? is that what we're hearing? >> well, we don't really know too much because the arrest warrants have been sealed. so the motive is sti

when we come back, paula will be joined by the man in her life.ver his yard. very romantic. >> very romantical. >>> i'm back with food network star paula deen and we are joined by her biggest fan, michael, the author of the book, "my delicious life with paula deen." hi, michael. who was your inspiration for that book? paula deen. >> yes. >> let's do a -- >> so michael, i love the story in the book about how the two of you met. tell us quickly what that was. >> that was pretty exciting. i was standing out in my yard. her dogs -- we were neighbors on a dead-end road. we live right on a creek. her dog is running around the yard. >> running around this big wall. >> wall. into my yard. she was in hot pursuit. >> and then you were in hot pursuit. >> that's right. the dogs started pooping in my yard and she grabbed them and ran off running. >> he scared me. he was mean looking, joy. >> it was love at first sight. >> no, it was not. so two weeks later, the same thing happened again. >> again. >> same identical thing. >> it was meant to be. >> and i got to

paula deen. >>> what i'm fixing to do is fry up the macaroni and cheese. i'm going to wrap it in bacon and deep fry it. so here goes, y'all. >> i just gained four pounds watching that. paula deen went from a poor wife and mother with agoraphobia to the queen of southern quiz eechbl at first she couldn't leave the house. you now she's so busy she can't get back to the house. a best selling cook book author and the star of several food network shows, including paula's home cooking. hi, welcome to the show. >> thank you. i'm thrilled to be here. i'm so proud of you i wax your show and love it. >> you thank you very much. >> what's for desert? angioplasty? >> a quadruple bypass. >> you know, your story, your personal story in your book, which i love -- >> that's my husband's book. >> he'll be out later. your story is so relatable, i think, sow so many women out. there you were married at 18. >> married at 18. >> by 23, what happened to you? >> by the time i was 23, my mother and father both had died, who were so impactful on my life. then they were gone. my se

paula is the president of miss universe and she is clafting carrie prejean. gave an interview on "the joy behar show." she laid into carrie for claims about trump. you have to see what she said. >> mr. trump who bent over backwards and defended her even when she was caught in lie after lie. she totally lied and really did not tell the truth about getting behind the scenes in the pageant. it was more to make herself look good. if you want to sell a book if you put donald trump's name in it, that's the best way to. enough already. this was not about peranswer, but the fact that he was absolutely impossible to work with. >> paula makes a great point. you want to sell a book, start a fight with don 58d trump. let me ask you, do you think the whole thing could backfire on carrie? she is getting all this attention and here we are talking about it and mentioning the book and the fact that it's out, but it has been faded away. >> from one author to another, it's probably not going to backfire, but one of the blonds that is going to win is not going to be her. it's go

paula used to be agoraphobic so i asked if she couldn't leave the house, how would she do her grocery shopping? >> i would have to wait until my husband got home. i just felt like i had to get out. i was panicking. it's like i was suffocating. but i'm what i call a functioning agoraphobic. and y'all, people are so unfamiliar with an agoraphobic, but let me tell you, you are not going to meet an agoraphobic. they are home. they are home. they are home where they're safe. >> it's all on the telephone. >> yes. >> i guess you were on the phone a lot. >> i did. i talked on the phone a lot. >> what would happen to you if you went out in the air. you'd get a panic attack? >> i could, i could. just thinking, thinking. so many people, joy, are surprised because as well as they thought they knew me, they didn't realize all these thoughts that were going on in my head, the panicked feeling, the brown bag that i kept in my purse so i could run into a corner and breathe in it to quit hyperventilating. >> had you considered medication? they have medication for things like that. >> yes, but i wanted

joining me to discuss the sexcapades are paula shugart, president of miss universe, comedian rich vos, and ashleigh banfield, host of "open court" on trutv. why are there so many sex tapes out, guys? you have a few of them, all these celebrities, doing sex tapes. it sort of raises their profile. >> it's like plugging a gig. gets you out there. >> plugging a gig. >> i don't know how -- i don't know how anybody would make a sex tape when it's going to get out. i would never put myself -- i don't want to see myself naked when i'm shaving. i put a towel around my waist. >> these girls seem narcissistic. they're gorgeous girls. i spoke to her this morning about her sex tape. take a look at this. you made the tape. you have photos of yourself. you didn't go along with the morals clause which is in the pageant's rules, yet, you say you're a victim. i don't totally buy it. >> did you see the attacks i was under? did you see the names i was called? i want to ask you. did you? >> some of it. yes. >> what do you think of that? >> i thought it was okay to say your piece of mind. i said that on th

paula shoeguard the the president of miss universal and she's also blasting carrie prejean.joy behar right here on hln. shoeguard really laid into carrie about her claims about mr. trump. >> mr. trump who bent over backwards and defended her even after she was caught in lie after lie, she just totally lied and really did not tell the truth about things behind the scenes in the pageant. she put it more in a way to make herself look good. but, honestly, if you want to sell a book, if you put donald trump's name into it, that's the best way too. but just enough already. this was not about her answer, it was about the fact that she was absolutely impossible to work with when we tried to make things -- make it work -- >> at the pageant. >> yeah. and paula does make a great point that we've been making right here. you want to sell a book? well, hey, start a fight with donald trump. whitney, let me ask you, do you think the whole thing could backfire on carrie? because, yeah, she's getting all this attention right now, hey, here we are talking about it, we're mentioning her book an

joining me to discuss the sexkapades are paula shugart, president of miss universe, comedian rich vos and ashleigh banfield, host of open court on trutv. why are there so many sex tapes out, guys? you have a few of them, all these celebrities doing sex tapes. it sort of raises their profile. >> it's like plugging a gig. gets you out there. >> plugging a gig. >> i don't know how -- i don't know how anybody would make a sex tape when it's going to get out. i would never put myself -- i don't want to see myself naked when i'm shaving. i put a towel around my waist. >> these girls seem narcissis c narcissistic. they're gorgeous girls. i spoke to her this morning about her sex tape. take a look at this. you made the tape. you have photos of yourself. you didn't go along with the morals clause which is in the pageant's rules, yet, you say you're a victim. i don't totally buy it. >> did you see the attacks i was under? did you see the names i was called? i want to ask you. do you? >> some of it. yes. >> what do you think of that? >> i thought it was okay to say your piece of mind. i said tha

paula dockery here will be a start in florida for woman power. host: that may fall with the question. why of this note for caller: president because she has experience and represents a moderate approach to government, balancing both parties. i only ashost: i only ask that because of the senate debate. guest: i'm a lifelong feminist and am all for woman power. i remember when geraldine ferraro was given the deep slot on the democratic ticket. i think the problem with moderates -- yes, and i think we all miss the moderate republicans, is that it is hard to get up a lot of enthusiasm for moderation. enthusiasm generally goes to people who have a bone to pick, who were not seeking the middle path. i think it would be good for america even though i would not be voting for olympia snowe most likely, good for america to have a moderate choice. our politics are cyclical. one side wins, the other side wins. the more extreme, the more difficulties arise. guest: that is right. there are not many moderates. some of those mentioned are likely not to be in the

paula bloom has worked with v.a.tals, who is well versed in the field of mental health in the military. she's joining us now. dr. bloom, thank you for being with us. since we know he was a doctor and had counseled people who had been to iraq and afghanistan, is there anything such as vicarious traumatization? >> yeah. i'm a clinical psychologist. i'm not a psychiatrist. yeah, there is a phenomenon of vicarious trauma or that kind of thing. but what we realize is it's not something that happens all the time. a lot of us go into this field because on some level we care deeply. it's kind of a weird job being a mental health person. >> in what way? >> it's unusual. any time i go to a party and somebody asks me what i do. people are like, why would you want to do that? it's an unusual job. >> so the truth is we're human beings like anyone else. so a lot of times you can help others and not really know that you yourself need help. >> that brings me to my second question. as a doctor would you not feel yourself starting to

i asked paula bloom who works with military veterans why he wouldn't have recognized that he himself might need some help. as a doctor, would you not feel yourself slipping into some unstable or unrealistic patterns that you can spot in other people? >> yeah. it is so much easier to see clearly in someone else than it is in ourselves. it is very difficult to see ourselves completely honestly. and in a lot of work settings, you're seeing so many patients, you're working so hard. you don't have a lot of time and a lot of settings to consult with colleagues and that kind of thing to get support. sometime we don't see ourselves accurately in the mirror as we can see others. >> now an army spokeswoman said he had been scheduled to deploy the afghanistan to counsel soldiers suffering from combat stress. >>> here's more bad news. this morning u.s. labor department released the october jobs report. 190,000 more jobs were lost, which means the unemployment rate jumped to 10.2% in october. into double digits for the first time in 26 years. cnn money.com is in new york. i know you've been study