pete fontana, thanks a lot. i'm told by the staff that we have a link. cnn.com/kyra. ottom of the screen. pete, thanks for all you do. a lot of families are cutting back this holiday. 15 million americans jobless. unemployment rate just under 10%. for parents struggling, breaking the bad economic news to kids can be tough, especially right now around christmas time when a lot of other kids are getting presents. jeff gardier, clinical psychologist, jeff, if a parent is strapped for cash, the kids are maybe watching tv and seeing all of these and other children and santa is not going to be that generous this year. >> kids understand that things are not the way they once were. we see in the segment that you just did now, and avoid things with the parents. i think we've learned in the economy, the kids have learned what is going on. minus the fear, minus the anxiety, all of those emotional changes as parents were going through in this economy and i think when our kids start experiencing that anxiety. that's the red flag for us as parents to say, you know what, we better de