recently, i read an interview with the british publicist peter pome, and he is very interesting said about the fact that during the war it is very important for the country to synchronize in order for the military and civilians to breathe in harmony. he says that there is a risk if the soldiers see the front, then one reality and the media show another reality. then there is this gap and you need to look for it. the balance is between one and the other, on the one hand, to maintain the capacity of the fighting spirit, such is the mood, and on the other hand , to speak honestly with or with the readers or the audience, and if this balance is not there, as they say, it is reconciled, then there are risks of losing reality, then the soldiers see that society does not understand what is happening at the front, and the gap begins, the fragmentation of reality is a very thin river, says peter, and it is very complicated, and he says, i do not envy the people who have to make decisions, what should be said now, and what should not be said now , how to properly talk about losses in the war a