crash course of gender apartheid, oppression that planneded the seeds of future in human rights, phyllis chessler of psychology at the city of university of new york. he new book "an american bride" in kabul, detailing the struggles that made her one of the most respected voices for women today. how did you ever get from being a nice jewish girl in brooklyn to being a bride in kabul and when did you realize this is not at all what i signed up for? >> i was a romantic. we fell in love. we were soul mates, exo tenlist bohemians and never mentioned his father had three wives and never told me i had to live with my mother-in-law. it never came up in conversations. when we landed in kabul and i knew him for two and a half years, he's a westernized guy, when we landed, and official took away my american passport. that meant i became a citizen of no country and the property of this large wealthy polygamist afghan family. then i got to live not for many years, just for five long months, in a harem and begin the book with i once lived in a ha r.e. harem in afghanistan. it reminds me from out of africa. my