she had called the pima county sheriff's department. >> she made a report that j.r.o her house on curtis and was banging on the windows and banging on the doors. >> reporter: j.r. said he was just trying to pick up some of his belongings. but it prompted linda to call her attorney the weekend she disappeared. >> hey, david. it's linda. j.r. will not leave me alone. he was over here this morning, beating on my windows, calling me. i need to know, should i go down and put a restraining order on him? >> reporter: she wasn't the only one. rosemary and dave also had a restraining order against j.r. it stemmed from an incident when he was still dating linda and came to pick up jordynn at their home. >> i was home alone with the kids, and just, you know, banging on the door, the big, heavy -- not just a knock, knock. it was kind of, you know, a boom, and it was more his tone at the time. it made me nervous enough to protect myself and the kids and everybody involved. >> reporter: of course after j.r. and linda broke up, things changed. >> j.r. came to us and said that he ha