jack pluta has the fine print. " (shaun murphy/ recently married) "we had an 11-month engagement, we just shaun murphy and aaron lopez married on their southern wisconsin farm. then, they did what heterosexual couples have done for years. (shaun murphy/ recently married) "about four weeks ago we sent our wedding announcements out to our hometown newspapers." five hometown newspapers to be exact. the announcement appeared in all of them except the lake gazette, murphys hometown newspaper. (shaun murphy/ recently married) "we didn't get a clear answer, all four announcements pretty quickly, and we were getting some mixed messages from the staff here." weary of bothering the staff, murphy reached out to the lake gazette's owner, lakeway publishers in tennessee. murphy was told he and his husband's announcement would not be published. the company said it was unclear how the industry would respond to a same-sex marriage announcement. (shaun murphy/ recently married) "i think there was a little bit of dread about it, because we knew it could get kind of messy." messy, it got. (sarah jacobs