healing but it is about racial relationships, and i share with you before we are in a mixed marriage, pokomon is an african and i am an american many times people don't see that difference but you know differences are also inside how we speak our language, you know, our cultures, how we do things and attitude healing is a wonderful process for young people we do leadership training for oakland housing authority. we train almost 80 people a month in core values and looking at the rules and regulationlooking at ways they can become a good neighbor. >> why are these guys focused on fear? is that one of the main emotions that control us? >> well, you know, really it is the opposite of love. >> okay. >> and when you -- love is a force that brings people together and helps people to bring -- it can bring lovers together, bring communities together, and bring families together and fear is an emotion they can separate and divide usually when we get afraid we separate. >> mm-hmm. >> so the more that we can really see these two emotions, we are constantly fluctuating between those two emotions the more