-- without getting polly anna, do they approach it in a different way and how so?-- without getting polly anna, do they approach it in a different way and how so?-- without getting polly anna, do they approach it in a different way and how so? -- without getting polly anna, do they approach it in a different way and how so? >> women approach is differently because they are mothers, they are spouses, they are everything. no matter how much we look at -- if we are in abstract and talk about women movement maybe, it's a little bit -- we have to look at the specifics in everyday life. if i look in my society and my community, it was pretty established that women were the heart of the home. >> in rwanda? >> in rwanda and pretty many different societies i know of. it means that when the older -- the war is going on, the ru rules -- they lose their husband, their children. when i look at for instance when we are talking about our reconciliation and what was taking place, it meant that sometimes you had to bring two parts together. usually, the women, because they are marr