. >> i assume that she was right because that happens to be my daughter that said that and prevailingheoryuse of boys aggressiveness coed schools were unfair to girls who were overwhelmed by the boys. but maybe things changed today many educator say that boys get stifled i school. psychologists leonard is author of boys a drift. which argues today's schools are toxic to boys, doctor, your book said school takes boys motivation away? >> boys of 7 and 8 years of age, say i hate school, and i ask them why, they say, jason and me were throwing snowballs we got in trouble. they said we could draw anything we want in art, and i drew a sword and get in trouble. john: in trouble f drawing a sword. >> an amel today it is common for boys many schools have a we're zero tolere policy, not only can you not bring a plastic replica of a gun but you cannot draw one. john: to reduce violent. >> this is an assumption not based in evidence. the notion is that if you don't allow boys to draw a sword, they will become gentle fairies who want to talk about their feelings, it is not tru i was referring to disney