i was surprised, we were going through the pyrenees, the mountains.suddenly the car broke down, and i remember thinking, i was six or seven, i was like, oh, my god, all of the spanish men are so friendly. every time we broke down, broke down quite a bit, within 2 minutes, there would be a guy there helping, and malcolm of course, i look back, you have a 32-year-old, beautiful -- >> kelly: oh, those spanish men were not helping all the ladies, just your mom. >> nikolaj: we did have a couple -- i do remember, also, we had some visitors in denmark -- >> kelly: [laughs] she's polite. they helped her out. >> nikolaj: they were so friendly. >> kelly: kelly: wait, so now you have, is it 21 and 18, your girls? >> nikolaj: i have my beautiful daughters, safina -- >> kelly: empty nest. are you -- are you nervous about this scenario? the guy