words mean little 10 years of waiting to hear what they most feared provides scant closure phnom a qantas army has just a few chickens to provide an income in sri lanka the elderly are usually looked after they extended family. but her daughter son in law and grandchildren have been missing since the end of the civil war i've been in that one and i know when my son in law surrendered and just like many of the tamil separatists my daughter and 2 grandchildren went with him and the girl was to the boy he was for them to this day we don't know where they are really we're still searching for them one bit of and. qantas ami also lost 2 sons a bomb killed one of them the other was kidnapped there's no trace of his whereabouts her husband has since become completely withdrawn he hasn't spoken in years. our forces fought for liberation but now the battle is over we're hoping that the president's anger will subside and we can see our children again. but president go to buy a rajapaksa has other plans he has declared all the missing persons from the civil war dead that means families will never know wha