you unfortunately did not have the best experience your foster parent was emotionally abusive and racesist. talk to us about dealing with that with a foster parent? >> i believe being a foster parent is a calling, and being in that role, you have an enormous impact on a young person. so for me, i had foster parents were who were abusive and who made me feel worthless and that i shouldn't aspire to anything but i had few people whom en cud me and said you can go to college and be different than the environment that you come from. so it's all being a foster parent is being being impactful in a young person's life. >> rick, it's estimated that about 80% of the kids in foster care have serious emotional problems. psychotherapist. >> yes. >> you know, the two of you have disposal. biological songs. >> yes. >> even with all of that, were you prepared for what you faced and are most people equipped to deal with the kinds of kids that they end up taking in? >> unfortunately -- unfortunately, the system ends up confronting reality. we had every advantage. we did have the resources and my wife had t