rachel garceau... moms everyday host in boise tiffany haywood... blogger at the mrs tee and mother of six. jen lennon... moms everyday host in colorado springs look at me! hey. raymond, look at mommy. dad: maybe the light hurts his eyes. mom: maybe she's just not hungry. maybe he can't hear us. look. maybe we're not stimulating him enough. maybe it's a phase. announcer: avoiding eye contact is one early sign of autism. learn the others today. >> hudson, do you love swinging? what happens when we stop? ( crying ) you love to swing? how about when we stop? ( crying ) okay. i guess we're not gonna be able to go home. you want to go over by your sister and go play? ( crying ) i'll take that as a no. rebecca: all right. today we are pin testing a frozen party. not only a frozen party but some ways to do it on the cheap. save some money. doesn't look cheap, just is cheap. mancey: exactly, that's the goal. rebecca: all right, mancey hartson is here. she's the mother of three. also you own a business where crafting and all this kind of stuff is part of you

rachel garceau: it's the entitlement factor. and that entitlement is so prevalent and it's hard. it's this keeping up with the joneses thing but we see it in our children, which i think, you know, when a lot of us were kids, i don't know that there was that much to keep up with. you know, there wasn't the technology and the phones and the cars and all that stuff. so i feel like i'm still working on this with my kids that are eight and eleven. i'm good at saying "no" but sometimes i have to think about why i'm saying "no" as well. probably need to say "yes" sometimes as well, but it is a struggle. it's a struggle to know -- yeah. jen lennon: but i don't want to keep up with sometimes. because i don't like some of the trends that i'm seeing. pam: yeah. jen: whether it's the class selections that i feel like my kids are supposed to take because everybody else is or whether it's the next new gadget. sometimes i think it's okay to want to walk your own path,