rachel krinsky is executive director of lifewire.. local organization which advocates for domestic violence survivors..rachel krinsky/lifewire"lauren did everything she probably could have and should have done. she recognized the signs of control she recognized something was wrong in the relationship she was able to identify she was being harassed and reported it those were all really smart things that she did."rachel thinks its so important we understand the signs of domestic violence.. and share that information with friends and family..rachel krinsky/lifewire "healthy relationships don't include control lots of jealousy one partner tracking the whereabouts of the other or tracking the finances or controlling sex or money all of those signs of power and control are sort of classic signs this is not a healthy relationship and it could escalate to violence."rachel says there's no way to spot an obvious abuser or victim. domestic violence cuts across all kinds of people and all demographics..rachel krinsky/lifewire"abusive partners don