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we're here with parenting expert rachel simmons.r fantasies on. this is a great message and means we have to look at loving our children for who they are, not who we wish they were. you know, george, kids pick up on it when we don't accept them as they are. it doesn't contribute to self-worth and can't develop it and creates anger at home. >> what does it look like in practice? >> like listening and reacting carefully. so looking at your triggers. kids are triggering and the truth is the more we get triggered by our kids it's almost always about us. and not really them. we have to think about, what really bothers us? don't bring our own wounds into our current parenting and stay in the moment. >> so how else do you manage this balance of being this in charge without trying to control? >> such a good question. so the idea is stay connected when you're setting your boundaries, so you say, look, i know you've had a long day and i need you to clean your room and explain the rules. you don't just be the enforcer. you can say, i need you

so eye-opening, rachel simmons, do yourself a favor and read that. >>> now to a "gma" -- thank you, debexperienced after suffering from a heart attack during her child's pta meeting. erielle reshef has the story we first saw from our affiliate wjla. >> reporter: for 52-year-old mom donnese tyler, a routine pta meeting turned into a sudden medical emergency. >> i felt a sharp, you know, pressing, odd pain in my chest and i felt like discomfort in my throat. >> reporter: and one more unusual symptom, the water she drank tasted salty with the combination of atypical symptoms she was urged to seek medical attention. >> i did not want to go, but two of the moms actually drove me to the er. >> reporter: doctors at a bethesda, maryland, hospital diagnosed her with s.c.a.d., a tear in the arteries of the heart that may cause a heart attack or even lead to open heart surgery. >> if i had not been around those moms, i would have just driven myself home and laid down ad who knows what the outcome would have been. >> reporter: women often experience symptoms other than classical chest pain like sho