that's where she caught the eye of randy parker. >> she had a way about her, the way she carried herself. there was just something really special about her. >> he had a balance in his life. he was good for me. he gave me confidence. he added to my life. it just worked. >> they married in 1982, and within four years, had two little girls. bobbi was a teacher, and randy worked in corrections. at one point, they both worked at the same prison. randy in administration, and bobbi teaching inmates with special needs. >> we walked in together and at the end of the day we walked out together. >> bobbi was named teacher of the year and randy moved up the ranks quickly. in 1992, he was named deputy warden at the oklahoma state retomorrow tor reformato reformatory. they lived on prison grounds, just outside the wall. what was life like in granite? >> it slowed down for me and my family a little bit, but it was good. >> if there wasn't much happening in granite, inside the prison it was the opposite. there was a new warden, determined to shake things up. his name, jack. >> i didn't sit behind my des