the rarefaction. and when it gets right here, right here, right here, right then what happens? one more time. boom. you see the next one. so it's not how hard you push. it's the rhythm with which you push that counts. do you see that? and if these are both of the same frequency-- you ever hear people talk about, "oh, someone is always on my wavelength"? they're kind of talking about that. see? if you have the same wave, same frequencies, then this one will set this into resonance. a couple of years ago about-- hey, must be five years ago now. i was skating to golden gate park. i roller skate. now, i'm skating through golden gate park and there's a kid-- saturday morning. this kid's sitting on a swing all by himself. and the kid says, "hey, mister, give me a push." i look and i see all the wet, soggy grass between me and him, i gotta clank through all the grass, get my ball bearings all wet and everything. you know, i said, "what you say, kid?" "you heard me. come over here and give me a push." you know how some of the kids act today? the kid didn't say, "i know you're busy "and