i would ground myself in my home life, and when it was very difficult for me, when i was rcdivoed, becausehat signal suggests open sesame on dates and flirtation, and i developed a very careful way of watching when the line camera. i think women usually know before the men wear the inclination is going, and you can make a move. sometimes, you get trapped, and that is why i told my one story about harassment, because the women tell me today that it is more subtle, and they have to be alert, and there is a great deal less of it in the sense that anything goes, but you can still get blindsided, and i warn them about that. i ended up in the company apartment inadvertently. no one would have understood my story, because it was so stupid of me to go up, but i was not thinking like that. tavis: you referenced two or three times in this conversation home life, family life. there are some powerful questions you suggest in the text that women have to ask themselves. a lot of it comes to mind immediately, what did you learn from your siblings? why is that an important question? >> well, the propositi