and lucy steigerwald associate editor for reason magazine and reason dot com hello ladies iowa thank you for joining me thank you. let's just start with you know we all were kids. into middle school dances in high school dances and that's when everyone starts grinding you know you start learning how to dance in ways are normal you're not allowed to get up close that close to other little kids but just take a listen to what the prof chaperons what these moms did to this girl to class. pretty spur is a senior at manitou high school she says when teenagers ignored the chaperons instructions about dancing appropriately those parents called the girls whores and sluts as telling him trash now and that it was difficult this police report indicates one of the moms told the security guard the dance moves were filthy and something you'd see on m.t.v. . oh my god do you really think that moms like this well didn't they spray him with lysol they sprayed them with lysol yes i'm happy i just my legs on that one for a second did they come to the dance chaperoning with their life requests i feel lik