i regret that it went that way. i'd have liked to stay on the mission, but, you know, i was in command. i was responsible. and i don't have any hesitation to this day that when you're in command if you accept responsibility whether you think it's blame or right or wrong that you're doing the wrong thing. i think that -- i think i was raised to believe that and i believe it still. >> finally, what's the biggest leadership challenge facing this president in his next four years? >> i think we've gotten pretty di divisive. it looks as the american government has gone to their respective corners in a fight and they come out every few rounds and knock each other. you know, the world watches us. we don't watch everything that happens around the world with the same level that other people do. i'd be in afghanistan and people in even fairly remote areas would ask me pretty nuance questions about american government, american issues because we are so important, we're so dominant in many ways. and so everything we do -- like i

you know ninety percent of us have regrets and so how do we deal with the regrets to be kind of dwell on them do we let them interfere with our sort of life or do we kind of come to terms with them there's research that shows that people who are able to kind of confront and accept and kind of integrate their regrets into their identities actually become happier and more complex and even more mature as individuals so that's a matter of. essentially regulating the stories that you tell yourself about yourself like in the quiet study the kids who told themselves that they were victims were more likely to be fragile the child. told themselves that you know stuff happens and i grew out of that i rose above it we're more likely to be resilient and there's been this debate for forty years about whether the stories evolve to produce the resilience of the resilience came out of the stories how how how does that work what's your suggestion to people who may feel like they're a little fragile how do they become more resilient in terms of getting control of their own stories. well you know i actu

i regret the upheaval it started but i don't regret this today. since we launched the ipo we've

. >> i have already stated that i regret the term nlg. >> you said back then it makes us do dumb things. you can't name one senator intimidated. now give me one example of the dumb things we're pressured to do up here. >> we were talking in that interview about the middle east. about positions. about israel. >> now that exchange followed another faceoff earlier today with senator john mccain over the war in iraq. >> will you please answer the question? will you correct or incorrect when you said that the surge would be the most dangerous foreign policy blunder in this country since until nam? were you correct or incorrect? yes or no? >> my reference -- >> are you -- the question is,

market is going to extend higher to a new level, and investors who don't invest long-term are going to regret not participating in this move. > larry, will they be sorry? what are your concerns about the market? > > i don't think at all. it is true that markets have a way of moving long before the math and the headlines say so, but right now the growth metrics have to revive themselves. something that we are seeing in china, but we are not seeing in europe and the u.s. we have made a nice run. it is time for a breather. i see a 5% correction in the cards very soon. > matt, at some point, won't money managers and traders be

i regret the upheaval it started but i don't regret this today. since we launched the ipo we've seen some rules no homicides in august since the last thirty years. and homicides and gun violence

and in this approximate silence we have felt that not regreting has spared us loneliness. called at the door. you did not tell me about these hours, how thick they were and wounded. i hear myself telling someone to punch me just to figure the order of my beliefs. someone else in my clothes who would view this and move on. explain again the conditions that will bring along the morning and what it is here that convenes the night. and then the last poem is called upon living. they shove your feet out of the smokestack kitchen. they narrow the big sea sba a line of your sweat and then they take away your last word and then they take away another. now you put the keys back in your pocket and now you push on the door until it is in flame, until it is in flame. next reader is jane herschfield. . >> one sand grain among the others in winter wind. i wake with my hand held over the place of grief in my body. depend on nothing, the voice advices, but even that is useless. my ears are useless, my familiar and intimate tongue, my protecting hand is useless that wants to hold the single

[laughter] i'm sure i'll regret asking, but why are you laughing? it's ironic.but why-- depression in cancer patients is not as common as you think. it's not the dying that gets to people. it's the dying alone. the patients with family, with friends, they tend to do okay. you don't have cancer. you do have people who give a damn. so what do you do? [laughter] you fake the cancer, then push the people who care away. because they're boring. go home to your hotel room and laugh at that irony. start small, house. take a chance. maybe something that doesn't involve sticking stuff in your brain. pizza with a friend. a movie. something. follow my finger. do you know your name? his speech center was on the right side. it'll be a while before he's talking. he hasn't really done anything except to stare off into the distance. he'll take some time to... [uplifting piano music] oh, uh... ♪ you buttoned your shirt. he looks happy. [gomez' see the world] ♪ ♪ ♪ day to day ♪ where do you want to be? ♪ ♪ 'cause now you're trying to pick a fight ♪ ♪ with everyone you need ♪ you s

i regret the upheaval it started but i don't regret this today. since we launched the ipo we've seen some rules no homicides in august since the last thirty years. and homicides and gun violence down over the first part of the year citywide. thank you to all our police officers that can thank you pastor bryant and to our faiths leaders. thank you. we need to save young men's lives and we can be safer still. weigh are getting more pollens on your streets. i look forward to sign into law the by an of hallow points bullets. these bullets have no place on our streets. and there's another type of violent crime where often no weapon is involved and that's domestic violence and abuse which effects whoo too many woman and children in our streets. we must prevent and report domestic abuse. i pledge - and i pledge to continue to working on the pleasantly with our partners in the community to bring to issue the violation that will prevent woman and children >> i'm also proud that under our probation departments and working with police and other city departme

my only regret, i wish i never, ever in my life seen it for the hundred good stories i could tell you i can tell you three times the bad stories. it made me feel the greatest at times and made me hate myself most of the time. >> chas harper is currently serving his fourth prison term. the first three totalled six years for theft and burglary but when he was caught with 114 grams of meth the judge threw the book at him. >> i was sentenced to 72 years which means i have to do 36. that is 12 years more than a murder. most murderers get 60 years. it's hard for my family to grasp that the amount of time for the charges. i mean how do you explain to a six-year-old why your dad can't come home and to an 11-year-old you might be a grown man before you see me again on the outside. >> but harper is not without family behind the bars. he shares a cell with his younger half brother, david car >> we have got in trouble together. if he decided he wanted to do something i would go behind him and be like all right. let's go, then. >> keep doing this [ bleep ] be a domestic battery case. i swear to go

there is some regret among the editorial staff. check this out call by miles bennett smith who apologized for small uncovering the hoax. he realized if a student dies in a car crash and has leukemia campus we know. he could have broken the story so regret at the newspaper. here is what else we heard on campus today. >> to be honest, it is not on my radar but it seems very silly and unnecessary. that's pretty much all i think. >> it is just a level of humans being duped in the past no one would hear but now everything is a headline so everyone knows. >> as far as campus officials they checked the ridge -- registration in was in student by to name. she does not exist here at stanford. that is all the campus wants to say. i asked why they would not comment further and they said this is nothing else to say. the students at the newspaper hear disbelief on campus, shock, and people rolling their eyes over the silliness. >> amy, thank you. the story has many wondering how this could happen and brings to light scams called cat phishing whi

their regrets. but you yourself have faced a number of times especially on your travels on the hot air balloons across the ocean what made own over and over again i can imagine must have been so painful for your family as well the amount of could find out probably of i love the child. always love a challenge great difficulty saying no and if somebody says. nobody's float around the world in a balloon or. nobody is. say well let's try. i'm not sure it wasn't easy. but now my children are doing it with. the highest mountain in europe a couple of months ago we. have together across the channel we're going to space together. so my children i think understand why i like to live life to its full and then. doing that with me as your wife happy with the fact that your children are now the only x.x. thing that. i don't think she's. wildly happy but she certainly loves children doing what they want to do and that's i think that's what mothers mothers of course so. we try not to take unnecessary risks i mean w

i regret the last statements. it is not correct to say that the president is not interested in deficit reduction. that is not true. it was the republican leadership in this house that walked away from the big package. so i think it is trouble some that you come here, apparently saying you will vote for this bill, by launching an unfair, untrue representation of what has been going on. sellout wants to be very clear, because my guess -- so i want to be very clear, because my guess is the chairman will talk again, that there has been a permanent level of revenue set by this bill. that is not correct. if that is an effort to get votes on your side, i want the record to be clear. so i will close by reading from the president's statement of yesterday. "i want to make clear that any agreement we have to deal with these automatic spending cuts that are being threatened for next month, those also have to be balanced. remember, my principle has always been, let's do things in a balanced, responsible way. now, the same is t

>> do you regret, a, either supporting mitt or getting out yourself. >> well, i don't regret supporting in the end i thought it was going to be a very, very tough race and very, very close race despite some of the people that were on your show, saying it was going to be a landslide which i never understood. >> sean: i never believed. >> i thought a tough and close race. i think sandy hurt. i think a lot of things hurt, but i always felt it was going to be close and they give the advantage to the incumbent because he went around saying i'm going to give billions here, and here. >> sean: sandy hurt a lot. >> i think that sandy hurt, but i don't think-- i think the debates, in the end the debates were devastating. the performance of the second debate was poor, but the performance in the third debate was a total catastrophe. >> sean: you were disappointed you got out, and wish you ran. >> you know i was leading in every poll, but i thought that mitt could do a good job and he could win because his stance on china was good and china is ripping us off and opec is ripping us off, he was good a

regret is not i am sorry for. there's a big difference between saying you regret and a big difference between saying i'm sorry and i did this. so, what wording do you need to hear that gets you to the courthouse to file your case? >> well, i think no matter what he says tomorrow night, based on the evidence we have, we have a compelling legal case for the return of the money we paid him. but we're specifically looking to see which of the doping allegations that we raised and developed in our case he's going to acknowledge as true. that said, you played a clip from my deposition where he said unequivocally under oath i never doped. i think tomorrow night he will actually confirm that that was an untrue statement given under oath. >> this is getting into the weeds a little, but the effect is no less critical. i know the statue of limitations on perjury is three years in texas. did you ever take a deposition over a video conference or a telephone call from another state which could possibly expose lance armstrong to

there is some regret among the editorial staff. check this out call by miles bennett smith who apologized for small uncovering the hoax. he realized if a student dies in a car crash and has leukemia campus we know. he could have broken the story so regret at the newspaper. here is what else we heard on campus today. >> to be honest, it is not on my radar but it seems very silly and unnecessary. that's pretty much all i think. >> it is just a level of humans being duped in the past no one would hear but now everything is a headline so everyone knows. >> as far as campus officials they checked the ridge -- registration in was in student by to name. she does not exist here at stanford. that is all the campus wants to say. i asked why they would not comment further and they said this is nothing else to say. the students at the newspaper hear disbelief on campus, shock, and people rolling their eyes over the silliness. >> amy, thank you. the story has many wondering how this could happen and brings to light scams called cat phishing whi

they regret not building them. thank you. [applause] >> reverend norman fong has been praying for 20 years. he has been a great champion. he has to collect all of his efforts for so many years to make sure our communities were served well. he's been an advocate and director of the chinese development center, a center invaluable to the growth of our community to plan affordable housing, transit, to open space, to the care for our seniors. the reverend fong we have been recognizing your voice for wells fargo on the radio and we want to give recognition to your voice again as a champion for the central subway. come on up reverend norman fong. [applause] >> yeah, that's true. i am going to keep this short, but i also need your involvement. i was asked to do a blessing but those that know me we need to bless each other and today i just want you to say these four words. bless the central subway. say that. "bless the central subway". now, whenever i say this word "this is it" -- i am borrowing from michael jackson. then you did a bl

the agency says rear admiral thomas carnie expressed his deepest regret. some 56,000 liters of fuel on board the stranded vessel needs to be removed. the navy then plans to use a crane ship to lift the mine sweeper off the reef. the reefs are located in the center of the sulu sea. it has a high density of marine life, including over 350 species of coral, about 500 species of fish as well as rare sea birds and turtles. >>> thousands of filipino victims of human rights abuses under the regime of ferdinand marcos are set to receive compensation. the philippine congress approved the measure nearly three decades after the former strong man fell from power. money recovered will be used to pay the victims. >>> a committee of the philippine congress approved the bill late wednesday. reuters reports total payments will exceed $246 million. the abuses occurred during a period of marshall law that lasted from 1972 until marcos fled the country in february 1986. his government is accused of making arbitrary arrests, detention, torture or even executions. some 10,000 v

. >> it's be deep regret we announce we have recovered the body. >> they found the 19 year old in a snow bank along pioneer trail no more than half a mile from the snow globe music festival where she was with friends on new years eve. friends say she left early to go back to their hotel in nevada despite at least one witness who reported seeing her there after midnight. it's now unclear whether she ever made it back. >> obviously there's been conflicting information about this case. if that person did see her, it is possible that she jumped on a shuttle or got a ride back to the snow globe area. so we have a lot of leg work still to do. >> at this afternoon news conference county authorities said her body was found fully clothed with no signs of trauma while friends said she appeared to be under the influence of something new years eve, versailles the freezing temperatures could also explain why the young woman ended up here on the side of the road. >> when people get hype them ma or severely cold they get to a point where they can't function and think logically and if that had happened

look, i regret it. i do. >> jimmy: why would you regret that?t was just -- okay, when i was a kid, my dad -- he had side businesses all the time. and somehow, i don't know how, but he came upon, like, a truckload of cellophane. >> jimmy: okay. what? >> suddenly, there was all this cellophane in our basement. >> jimmy: okay. >> and he wanted me to sell it. >> jimmy: he wanted you to sell cellophane? >> it's like plastic wrap. you wrap sandwiches in it. >> jimmy: saran wrap? >> yeah. i'm trying to sell it to the kids at school. trying to sell it to my teachers. and then when i couldn't get rid of it, i thought i'll go outside at the supermarket and wait until people with their food -- because they're going to need to wrap it. [ laughter ] anyway, i had a fantasy that one day someone would buy all of it, you know? and some guy would be like i'll take it all. which never happened. >> jimmy: uh-huh. >> so i was walking out of ralph's one day and i saw these kids trying to sell their cookies and i was like i'll take them all. i bought hundreds and hun

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i think ken is regretting that mustache right about now. >>> the bay area full of 49er fans, all walks of life including those who walk on all4. this charming fellow, chucky niner. tess see sent us this picture of their niner mascot in their family. we're showing up fan photos in every newscast leading up to super bowl sunday. keep them coming. you can send tomorrow to news@kpix.com or upload them at cbssf.com. >>> stretching isn't for sissies. that's coach jim harbaugh's motto. how the daily regimen of stretching could be the secret weapon to niners success. >> the party's over in d.c. the plans the president laid out and the new battles he is facing in his second term. >> and the cbs 5 mobile weather lab. we are live in walnut creek. it has been so dry so far this january but that is going to change big time. your forecast, live from walnut creek, coming up. >> and ready for the big splurge before the big game? the three things you need the know about buying a t.v. for your super bowl party, including the best t.v. for watching football. next. new tv. >>> well, the bigger the better.

she was asked do you have any regrets, and she said my regret is i took the video vertically because that's where she got criticism. i think it's weird to -- first of all, that kind of stuff as being funny, i don't get it. i don't get -- she said she wanted her kid to learn how to take a joke. >> right. and develop a good sense of humor. then when he was asked how did you feel when she told you that it was a joke he said that was okay, right? and it's not okay. >> because this video -- like a lot of these, they live forever and ever and ever. i can even just think of today like this kid's classmates are saying it's already on youtube, and it's gotten a gazillion hits. she thought it was funny. i think it's one of those things that you're watching her embarrass him. i was totally turned off. >> right. i mean, i don't know their family dynamics. but when you look from the outside at it, you just see a kid that's heartbroken. he thinks they're going to have to sell everything. and the guilt that he felt. >> we're against it. >> yeah. >> okay. so meredith vieira, we asked people to tweet

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we shouldn't have walked on the ice in the first place. >> i regret my choices deeply.hank you for sacrificing so much to save us. >> who do you think made them write that letter? >> a third boy, who had made it to the shore, called for help on his cell phone. they waited four hours up there. wow. >> very lucky guys. lots of folks are weighing in on this about ice safety. it's never really that thick, so be very, very careful and cautious. don't do this. >> there's an expression. you're on thin ice, young man. >>> all right. winter has arrived in a big way in el paso, texas. blizzard conditions have descended into that area. more than 200 miles of nearby interstate 10 have been closed due to all the heavy snow. so let's check in with alexandra steele in the weather center for today's forecast. good morning. >> hi, good morning to you guys. last year we had a lot of those stories ant people gbout people the ice, falling through because last year the ice was so warm and never really got thick, especially in the upper midwest. >> it's just not safe. don't do it. >> that's

do you have any regrets now looking back on that my only regret is that i didn't hire an attorney before i blew the whistle on torture i wish i had done that but no. the one thing that i wanted most of all was for my children to be proud of me and i know that morally i did the right thing and my children are proud of me and that's the most important thing to do when you go to prison i'm going to prison sometime in the next five to seven weeks i'm supposed to receive a letter from the duro of prisons telling me to get on to report in the in the facility how many kids you have i have five kids and how are you and your family preparing it's hard. you have to worry about everything from a will to a power of attorney to child care. it's it's hard we couldn't get through it without people like justin friends attorneys advisors supporters without without this community of people that's come out to help me i couldn't possibly have gotten through this well i really appreciate you coming on having me before i know that you know your time is very precious right now sarah that really appreciate you

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the president regrets it.teny hoyer our whip in the democratic side acknowledges that he should not have voted against the debt ceiling increases when he did it on occasion. so it's really time for both sides to renounce the use of this tactic which is really so destructive to our economy and renounce it altogether. the republicans can use it now because they have the majority. the democrats should renounce using it in the future as well. >> john: to say nothing of the fact it is one thing to vote against it when you're squandering a bill clinton surplus on tax cuts for those who don't need tax cuts pre-2008. it is another thing when you're trying to climb out of a recession. >> that's exactly right. there is a lot of misunderstanding about the debt ceiling. most americans think the debt ceiling is congress giving itself permission to spend more money. when they understand it is about do we default on our bills they say what? you're not going to pay your bills? that's what the debt ceiling is about. one of the

does he regret it. >> yeah, sure. i probably shouldn't have posted what i said on there.egret it. it got blew [ bleep ] out of proportion. >> dana: kimberly. they charged him. do you think that is right. >> kimberly: hello. he said, i probably shouldn't have done that. they didn't bring indictment charges against him because there wasn't going to be sufficient evidence and blood test in time. if he had posted five minutes ago and had probable cause, sure it could have been you. statements are used all the time. this didn't have sufficient evidence. >> dana: it wasn't the cops weren't tracking him on facebook. somebody called the cops. maybe it was actually one of his friends on facebook. what do you think. >> bob: i think what is dangerous, there is no evidence that this kid did this. a kids have tendency what they r may not have done it. >> dana: and also said on tv. >> bob: what i'm saying, when there is no evidence available to police, it seems to me they shouldn't be charging people. >> kimberly: there was without something to tie it together. >> bob: if you are going

. >> schieffer: no regrets. are you an re?> i have regrets that some of the things i was responsible for i didn't finish. i didn't finish the job in afghanistan. i let down a lot of people that worked for me, 150,000 troops worked for me. the afghan people, many of them believed deeply in me. i was worried that my wife of then 33 years now 35 years that i had let her down. but they've been remarkably supportive, and i don't have any regrets in my life. i was extraordinarily lucky to be part of the things i experienced. >> schieffer: now you're back in washington. you've had a chance to see how washington works. it's not altogether an inspirational time here i would think. we see the political system virtually broken. i was just talking about it. let me ask you about chuck hagel. do you have any problem with chuck hagel? >> i've only met him once and i certainly have no problem with him. he certainly has a great record not just as a soldier but as a senator. >> schieffer: let's talk a little bit about afghanistan and this is th