image, about relationship, issues of sensual, sexuality, issues that people need to adjust to relationally, issues that impact one's ability to work and sort of the emotional roller coaster. can you talk a little bit about some of those things in the context of your experience? >> i could but to answer everything you brought up, you have to read the whole book. >> of course, sure. >> meanwhile, the image that women have can be destroyed during breast cancer because they may need a mastectomy and that will change their physical appearance. some men will react badly to that. some women will react badly to that. the hair loss that still exists is a big deal. it may mean getting a wig. it may mean watching your hair grow as my wife did in different colors. support is important, critical, coming from wherever it comes from. i recommend that women and men find a group if possible of support. if you believe in therapy in terms of therapists, find that. use friends. women in particular need women friends who can relate to them on a physical basis to give them that support. men need to get out of t