so, what ensues is what i call families of collateral relos. these are parents who follow their kids and they go for example outside atlanta a place called the season's and i guess this particular community might be called the winter. [laughter] but they follow their kids to what are called active adult communities. they are all back together. then the kids get moved again and the parents get older and feeble and they are now living in a place they know nothing about where they know nobody and they can't get back to bismarck so that is a sad phenomenon i saw happening. of course i am oversimplifying many find a way to acclimate to this, but it was a fairly striking phenomenon to me. yes? >> your book talks about the end of relo ear and eye -- or i thought it did. but is there an end to the era and if so what will take its place and where will you name it? [laughter] what will what? >> what will you name it? [laughter] that takes a little work since i can't define it yet. i think there is a predisposition on people who have read the book and wit

for relos wives. to follow their husbands, wives abandon or postpone careers. i was impressed here relos wives speak of concern for their kids's adjustment to new schools, of rootlessness and of loneliness. i don't have a best friend, one wife said. i thought wait a minute, what do you mean? i don't have the best girlfriend. it can take years to make a best friend. i had postpartum depression with each of my children. i, as a man, have no hormonal familiarity with anything associated with postpartum depression, so i understood. [laughter] it was not an issue to raise with the neighbors, the wives would tally, or husband. for these wives it is hard enough carrying the burden of suddenly they are families, finding homes, schools, doctors and churches and arranging the home, only to have to start all over again somewhere else. recession, bad as this one is, seems not to take much of a toll on relos except for those working for crippled companies like general motors, citigroup or a ig, like home building,

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