i had no idea that the cars had ric ocasek in it. >> oh, come on. >> and the door open, and then ricd i -- >> lost it. >> well, i started hyperventilating, actually. >> what? >> well, yeah, i couldn't breathe. i was like [panting]. oh, my god, it's the guy from the video. you said you knew in that moment that was your husband. >> when i saw him across the room, like coming out -- walking out of the door, i was like, that's -- that's it. that's him. that's who i've been waiting for. wow. >> yeah. >> the couple married in 1989 when she was 24 and he was 45. they had two sons before separating in 2018, but even then, the two stayed close until his death a year later when paulina found him unresponsive. she later discovered she was taken out of his will. he passes away and you get the will, and what happened? >> well, the will that i got a couple of days later said there was a little amendment to it that said i will not provide for my wife because she abandoned me. it didn't make any sense to me because we were still living together. i was taking care of him while he was recuperating. >>