interesting things i learned about researching this book is female entrepreneurs don't look like richard hendrixact like the programmer type that you see on tv or hear about in the media. they are from all over the country, one in particular from santa fe new mexico with two little kids at home said this is the first time i've been able to breathe and not have my kids all over me, started a baby equipment rental company so when you go visit your parents across the country traveling with kids and have strollers and all these things you don't have to come you can go from one state to another. so the first time i could read and focus on my company with these entrepreneurs we spent the week work shopping and training and learning to go out and pitch to investors to scale the business, so i spent the week with her and other entrepreneurs and the interesting thing about the program is that it was building a network. these women were working together, they were mentors and adult competence and her husband looked at her and said who are you. she was so confident and met the cofounder of match.com was on