rick can't speak for himself? we don't like brown rice. >> really? >> what is that?cept some things as they are. you're going into this knowing this person is different from you. you're going into a marriage understanding this is the person you're going to be with. you can't change them. the sooner you realize that, the -- >> yeah. what's that line people always say, women go into marriage thinking they can change a man. yeah. >> men go into marriage thinking the woman won't change and she does. >> that's exactly true. >> probably true. >>> let us know your secret marriage tips. what have you used? we meet some great fox viewers on the plaza. >> long married viewers, that is true. share your tips, ffweekend on facebook. ffweekend, go there and share your thoughts. >> don't take things so seriously. >>> let's get to headlines now. charges have been dropped for two florida teens accused of bullying a girl so badly that she took her own life. the sheriff is not backing down. >> we worked with the state attorney's office when we filed these charges. we filed them because