i think this is -- i also think that sex is a very powerful thing as rick james might have said. [laughter] someone got the reference. anyway, and man, in particular, as we know -- and i am certainly not pretending otherwise about myself -- sex is a very powerful drive. it has made me do lots of stupid things, and had lots of amazing experiences. it is crazy to think that sex -- it is an astonishing mystery. there is something that we also know. if we give into it too much, we learned this over millennia, it can hurt us. it can lead to the spread of viruses and disease, emotional isolation, and lack of self- worth. you can to give yourself purely as a sexual object. it can lead to compulsive sexual behavior. it is such a powerful force in human nature, especially for men, i think. we need some kind of social institution to give status to commitment. i think, in a strange kind of way, this is particularly true for a game men. we are all men. we do not even have women to give us hell when we come home having done something really stupid. we do not have women in our relationships to

as rick james might have said. [laughter] >> someone got the reference.and men in particular, as we know, and i'm certainly not pretending otherwise about myself. sex is a powerful drive. it's made me do lots of stupid things. and had lots of amazing experiences. i think it's crazy to think that sex is an astonishing mystery. and that something with men in particular. but we also know that if we give into it too much -- we've learned this over millennia, it can hurt us. it can lead to the spread of viruses and diseases. it can lead to emotional isolation. and lack of self-worth. it can lead to thinking of one's self purely as a sexual object. it can lead to compulsive sexual behavior. it's such a powerful force in human nature. and especially for men, i think. that we need some kind of social institution to give status to commitment. and i think in a strange kind of way it's particularly true for gay men. because we're all men. we don't even have women to give us hell when we come home having done something really stupid. we don't have women in our relati

rick tomlin. michelle reader. jerry lee parker. ronata woodbridge. james martin. larry jones. michael carillo. mark bolty. lucio almond. >> we remember our friends and family from federal employees credit union, third floor. theresa wharton. virginia thompson. victoria dexter. karen shepherd. sondra sanders. claudine ritter. jill randolph. frankie merrill. claude thatte meeks. >> alvin justice. cristy jenkins. my sister, robin huss baby amber huss. she let driver -- sheila driver and baby. kathy family. -- kathy finley. woodrow brady. >> we remember our friends and family in the advance security surface, third floor. robert westbury. larry turner. norma johnson. robert demaster. my uncle, hardly cottingham. >> visitor to the second floor, we remember scott williams. >> we remember our friends and family in the american child develops center, second floor. carlton smith. chase smith. blake kennedy. wanda howell. kevin. kevin garrett. tyler santores. brenda daniels. >> my sister, jaycee ray. antonio and sarah cooper. >> anthony christopher cooper. his mother, dana cooper. zachary taylor chavez. my big siste

rick tomlin. michelle reader. jerry lee parker. ronata woodbridge. james martin. larry jones. michael carillo. mark bolty.lmond. >> we remember our friends and family from federal employees credit union, third floor. theresa wharton. virginia thompson. victoria dexter. karen shepherd. sondra sanders. claudine ritter. jill randolph. frankie merrill. claude thatte meeks. >> alvin justice. cristy jenkins. my sister, robin huss baby amber huss. she let driver -- sheila driver and baby. kathy family. -- kathy finley. woodrow brady. >> we remember our friends and family in the advance security surface, third floor. robert westbury. larry turner. norma johnson. robert demaster. my uncle, hardly cottingham. >> visitor to the second floor, we remember scott williams. >> we remember our friends and family in the american child develops center, second floor. carlton smith. chase smith. blake kennedy. wanda howell. kevin. kevin garrett. tyler santores. brenda daniels. >> my sister, jaycee ray. antonio and sarah cooper. >> anthony christopher cooper. his mother, dana cooper. zachary taylor chavez. my big sister, baile