rick wagoner raised his kids. not only could i not recall an instance where matt lauer or any major anchor asked such a question about managing being a father and the head of a major company. >> right. >> but in general, mary barra was extremely courteous by answering that question j. she was, but in fairness now, matt lauer's talking about this other article she had done with, i believe it was "forbes" magazine, where she brought up and balancing everything. and, you know, kirsten, some would argue that men aren't expected to have to balance it all, so it is part of our conversation. >> matt lauer has three children, and he's running all over the world -- >> in the world is matt lauer, is what he does. >> and nobody has any problem with that. so i think it's sort of a little bit of an excuse to be saying, well, she brought it up and so, therefore, it's fair game. >> i think it was what he was thinking inside, honestly, because that's how he thinks about it, you know? and his wife raises their chirp. i thought he