riley mclean: my name is riley. male or female but i'm not in the middle either. i don't identify on the gender binary. i'm just me. dakota dunlap: i'm dakota. people often ask if i'm a boy or a girl. i'm neither. i'm off the gender spectrum. audrey mason-hyde: hi, i'm audrey. i'm gender non-binary and queer and i wanna change the world. riley: tonight on "four corners" we take you into the lives of people like me, people who don't conform to gender norms. and i ask, why does it matter to you if i don't identify as a boy or a girl? ♪♪♪ olivia: well, the world basically evolves around boxes and those two boxes are a male box and a female box. and if you are born with a female body you have to be a female. if you are born with a male body you have to be a male and you've been put into that box. and they try to, like--people may try to duct-tape you, duct-tape the box so then you'll stay like that. but i cut the duct-tape and i jumped into my own box. jane russo: two years ago, olivia was diagnosed with gender dysphori