thank you to rita wilson for that. >> rita wilson wrote the song for us. >> i love rita wilson. >> yeahn to that. there's power in just -- it sounds cliche' to say that if you just smile at someone or pay attention to someone. i can't remember if i shared this with you three years ago when we talked about the greatest lesson that i learned from "the oprah winfrey show." i learned that early on is that every human being, you can back me up on this, dr. gupta, every human being is looking for one thing, and that is to be validated, to be seen and to be heard. and what i learned on the oprah show is that all the interviews that i did, although thousands of them and multiple subjects, at the end of almost every interview in one form or another somebody would always lean in and say, was that okay? was that okay? and i started to see that pattern. and what i realized is that everybody is looking for the same thing. no matter if it's politicians, senators, presidents, beyonce' in all of her beyonce'ness, we're all looking to know did you see me, did you hear me, and did what i say mean anythin