you asked robert gibbs specifically about her role. what was it that he said to you? >> he said, i was on a roll with questions, he said something to the effect of calm down. for a woman who has children, but to equate me to a child, it was disrespectful. he was angry at the time and people believe there isn't retaliation when you asked the white house a question, there is retaliation. the. the retaliation was seen on television, part of the retaliation was seen on television. after that i was upset. i couldn't believe it. at. at that time i was sitting in the fourth row and i couldn't believe what had happened. i had just sat there. i see the doors to the lower press office open and it was bill burton. , robert gibbs and he said come here and i said no. he was shocked. the unfortunate thing, i said okay i'm coming. i couldn't believe it. i thought what did i do wrong, in my mind. i asked the gentleman a question and what happened was, in my mind, and robert gibbs and i have come to a good understanding of we have a different relationship now, but to to my understandi

what happened was in my mind, and robert gibbs and i have come to a good understanding, we have a decent relationship now. but to my -- there was loyalty there. the obama administration was new and they supported one another, and the family supported -- they were very loyal to this woman, and there was other faux pas that caused a security breach at the white house. >> host: did you see robert gibbs at that point? >> guest: i did and it was a bad scene. there were other people -- it was other people in the room, and i just -- i remember gibbs telling me i owe the first lady an apology and desry an apology? i said if i did anything to offend the first lady, apologize. people were telling me and i was receiving e-mails and text messages in the leadup to this, why does robert gibbs disrespect you. said why do you disrespect me and he said, you tell me to e-mail them. i'll talk to them. and i i'm saying to myself, what did die too deserve this crazy necessary? and sometimes it's rough and tumble there, and when you are someone that hey perceive by yourself -- because i don't have the backing