robo ludwig, -- robi ludwig.a licious, for a lot of people ts sounds disturbing, not such a good news story. >> it is harsh and calculating. charles: you know maybe not the way america used to be. i looked at a chart of back to 1903, it does seem like there was a time when people may they forced it, but they stayed together. >> there is a different mind set. since the '60s even '70s, people' different things out of a pin persona -- out of a marriage, they want to feel personaly fulfilled, financially fulfilled, emotionaly fulfilled all from one person, people are not willing to jeopardize their personal heapnes as women feel intoto fling more security financiay they have the option to divorce and still fee financially secure, that was not truen the past. charles: the pecking order? financial, then emotional, satisfaction? >> i tnk that we're finding now is that more and more women are able to g jobs, it be out there and earn their own living, not rely on husbands, if they are not happy, they can actually take a s