and a ceremony to honor emergency responders and robin dehaven for their service. >> robin dehaven issence in a situation like that. someone needs to react right away that's willing to do it. >> he was at the right place at the right time. >> they're like, no, go away, the building's on fire. >> not surprising since dehaven wanted to rescue people for a living. >> i tried out for the fire department two years prior, too. >> what happened there? >> i didn't make it. >> big mistake. >> yeah. >> he received the city's public service honor for being a hero, a title he's still getting used to. people call you a hero? >> yeah. i'm like, okay, i -- like my son asked me the other day, you're a hero, aren't you? just out of nowhere because he's heard that from his grandma and mom and everyone. i said, at one point i was a hero, but i'm not a normal hero, i'm just your dad. >> the suicide attack that left two dead and 13 injured also left those who knew joe stack conflicted. >> my heart grieves for the loss of life caused by my husband. >> stacks' widow, sheryl, has spoken little about the trag