however, she felt like a housewife and she was living in upstate new york in rockland county. she was she had three children. and she had this enormous and her husband went into the city commuted into the city. so despite the fact that she did have this somewhat career, she also at the time was the fifties. she was being asked to be housewife. and it was stultifying to live in the suburb. and she just she felt so to me what this sparked the previous mrs. is just that what she felt which was trapped. she felt trapped right. like lot of women at the time didn't she understood those women she understood them. they were invoiced. invoiced what, what they were feeling. and so that they felt that the reason, the book was a hit was because women that the first paragraph which is this amazing paragraph describing what it's like to you know, wrap butter sandwiches and, you know, send your kid off to school, whatever. and how mind numbing is. and then the last thing is and you're not alone and read that. and they just they felt they felt seen where did the phrase is the problem that has