rocksan, thank -- roxan, thank , just thank you. you're amazing. >> guest: thank you. i've you're a rock star. just want to follow you. it's perfect. >> guest: for free. >> host: here's what is going to happen. we'll take a couple of questions from the audience, and i many real questions, don't, like, tell us a long story or we don't need your name. a lot of people want to know things here so we'll take just a couple in the audience and then rane will be signing books. so raid your hand. >> guest: here we go. >> hi. how are you. >> guest: i'm good. huh. >> good, thank you. i didn't get too far the book but what was the moment like when you told your parents and your family what happened? >> guest: i didn't. no, they know. [laughter] >> guest: that we be uncomfortable. a little magazine called "time magazine" published an article about my last nonfiction book, bad fem mist, and that opened up the familial conversation. i'm very passive aggressive. i'm not proud of it. if i could do it over with i would do itself differently. it's difficult to find the word, like so many