his name, roderick covlin.alled her sister that night with an outrageous -- >> she was all giggles and said i met a guy, really nice guy, and she says we are on our way to the airport. she was laughing, and i said shelley please don't do. this >> evening her sister out of it that night, but shelley was serious, and so was rod. shelley was 11 years older than him, but that didn't seem to matter. his parents, david carroll, said they adored her right from the start. >> he told us he had a girlfriend, and we have to meet her. and i said okay, they're coming up we don't have time for that -- now >> know you have to meet. her >> a brunette back then, shelley mary brought six months later. and as reality settled, -- it wasn't exactly blessed, because while he was a stunning overachiever, rod was well not in the same league. he was a stock trader of middling success. >> when it did seem was a guy that really had a lot of big ideas, and was unable to execute on any of them. >> but he had a couple of talents. martial ar