and that is why the royal air forces association set up as voluntary service.example where for a relatively small investment of time you can make huge difference to people's lives. i suppose a lot of military families, if they have moved around the world for decades, they might get a point in later life where they don't have that routes back home, they haven't been in one community where they have friends, neighbours, family next door, so it can be especially lonely. and one thing we tend to forget the older generation is they have all been our age and younger before, they have masses age and younger before, they have masses of experience and so many stories to tell. when we were filming that peace with marjorie, we asked her, what you get out of this, and she came with lots of things, and she came with lots of things, and we said, what you think sean gets from it, and she said, i'm not sure? what do you get from it? i spent 30 years in the military, we studied history and leadership is a lot, i have books about churchill in my library, and this was a lady who