so please join me in welcoming the first lady, rula ghani. [applause] >> thank you, jim, for these very kind words. i have a little trouble remembering the time as first lady. i haven't changed. i've always been what i am, and i'm comfortable with it, and i hope you will be, too. in the name of god the compassionate, the merciful, distinguished members of the audience, i come to you in peace. that's what that means. by inviting me to address the select gathering of thoughtful and influential movers and shakers, men and women him at the atlantic council at its afghanistan writing initiatives are honoring me get and i would like to thank fred kempe, jim cunningham, and zalmay khalilzad for their warm welcome. thank you also to you, members of the audience, for taking the time to come and listen to me. listening is something that i myself do a lot in afghanistan. when i first decided to fully assume the responsibilities of first lady some 18 months ago, i was entering uncharted waters. i had no specific agenda, but that of serving the people, es