and put her trust and faith in the church and its prophet, rulon jeffs. uncle rulon led the church in salt lake and he was more than just a man. he had over ten wives in over 50 children. and as rebecca was taught to believe, he spoke directly with god. >> he was our connection to the divine! and so, yes, i did owe that to him. >> so of course, rebecca, along with everyone else in the flds obeyed the prophets every directive. to obey was the key to salvation. >> obedience is the only act you could perform, and anything else was damnation. >> but as rebecca entered her teens, change was in the air. behind her uncles gentle smile, rules hardened. controlled tightened. not just for rebecca, of course, for all of them. this was her childhood friend, andrew chatwin. >> rulon started teaching you do not have a choice anymore. you have to be perfectly obedient. you are ordered to donate your time, your car, or make sacrifices that you normally wouldn't do because it was hurting your family. >> so more autocratic? dictatorial? >> yes, very dictatorial. a lot of m