. >> host: so with rigo to the naval academy one goes to the diversity of ruth dakota with rotc but all serving in different branches. how does that come about? image you can select the marine corps there is limited number of opportunities to cross all my daughter with crossed to the air force because she wanted to try a to fly and she had a medical condition precluded her in the navy but the air force had different standards she was also very interested in space so she could make that cross commissioned some it was a fluke we ended up with children in every branch. that was not intentional but it fits with each of their passion is a of what they want to do with active duty military service. >> host: who'd you feel is your audience? >> my first audience is military moms. i say i speak for the moms and dads the dad say but about us? i know that you care as deeply but my first audience is the of mom. they know that they are not alone and they can be encouraged and inspired and we can share information. on my website that is what i am trying to do to build the community where they can find