ryan widmer was charged with his wife's murder. >> this is the state of ohio versus ryan k. widmer. >> his family and friends were devastated. >> ryan and i were both so brokenhearted. i could not have ever conceived, nor could ryan, that they would have had any idea that he would have been the person to hurt her and that it wasn't just a tragic accident. >> just broke my heart. i mean, just knowing that he was feeling that grief and fear for his own life, too. >> is there any moment when you think, maybe there was -- >> never. >> no way. >> this santa ana of something awful happening? >> never. i've never even seen him when he was remotely angry. >> even sarah's family was behind ryan, so much so the two families decided to delay sarah's funeral until ryan was out on bond. >> sarah's family, they were very livid about the fact that he wasn't guilty, and they were not going to go forward with the service until ryan could be there. >> the families are both on the same page here. >> yes. >> that you're four-square behind ryan and you're not even going to grieve together formall