ryan witmer was charged with his wife's murder. >> the state of ohio versus ryan k. y and friends were devastated. >> ryan and i were both so broken-hearted. i could not have ever conceived nor could ryan that they would have had any idea that he would have been the person to hurt her and that it wasn't just a tragic accident. >> just broke my heart. just knowing he was feeling that grief and fear for his own life, too. >> was there any moment when you think, maybe another guy. maybe there was a -- >> never. this instant of something awful happened. >> never. never said anything where he was remotely angry. >> even sarah's family was behind ryan. so much so the two families decided to delay sarah's funeral until ryan was out on bond. >> sarah's family, they were very livid about the fact that, you know, he wasn't guilty, and that he were not going to go forward with the service until ryan could be there. >> the families are both on the same page here? >> yes. >> that your four square behind rhine and n ryan and not going to grieve formally until he's there with you. >