reporter sahar zand has been finding out.ssion, or could it be a healthier way of dealing with the grief of losing a loved one? it‘s a great unspoken, a taboo. something we keep away from us. something i have had to face recently, when i lost my dad, but i don‘t know how to deal with. most of us don‘t know how to think or talk about death. but there are some people who d0 think they know. in the toraja region of sulawesi, in indonesia, centuries—old customs make the dead a constant part of day—to—day life. this is danduro — he‘s 86 years old, and died over two years ago. ancient animist beliefs intertwine with newer religions, resulting in unique rituals. here, funerals take place months, and sometimes even years, after somebody passes away. in the meantime, the deceased is kept in the house and cared for as if he‘s sick, not dead. to preserve corpses, formalin is often injected into the body. my dad died three years ago, and we buried him in two days, it was all very sudden, it was all very bam bam. and to be honest with you