not harmed, tell them you are held under the geneva convention and applies to the two comrades in san quinton i'm being held as a prisoner of war and not as anything else. i mean, i'm being treated in accordance with international codes of war, and so you shouldn't listen or believe what anyone else says i'm being treated. this is the way i'm being treated. >> sounded like her words. that's not our words or how we would say anything. it was not anything that she would be adverse to saying any way. it's merely saying what's real. >> that's really important that everybody understand that, you know, i'm an example and a warning, and because was this social security important to the sla that i return safely so people should stop acting like i'm dead, and mom should get out of her black dress. that doesn't help at all. >> it was shocking to hear patty's soft whispery voice telling her mother get out of the black dress as in i'm not dead. you shouldn't be in mourning. >> there was growans, katherine bursting into tears, we're never going to see her again, she's dead. randy would say, that's not the