you have sandra bullock, hugh grant, meg ryan and tom hanks. >> she made everything beautiful. need someone just as much as jonah does? >> yes. >> he prepared movies like no other director i ever worked with. we would work for weeks. every line was specifically found or written or perfected. >> norah ephron was unafraid to take something that felt familiar, but then cover it in unfamiliar territory. >> you're going to have sex with her, huh? >> i certainly hope so. >> will she scratch up your back? >> what? >> in the movies, women are always scratching up the men's back and screaming when they have sex. >> how do you know this? >> jedd's got cable. >> this movie is about a widower. that was a brave choice. you saw people working on the screen who weren't from the traditional american family. >> the great thing about norah is, when she was talking about the dynamics between men and women who are attracted to each other or need each other or searching for each other and don't really know it, she was a genius. >> i'm the guy you don't usually see. i'm the one behind the scenes. i'